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Enjoying Peace and Balance
In your view, is the world basically a safe, beautiful, and peaceful place, or are you weary from the stress of daily life? Is your life joyful, or do you often feel that it is out of control? Do you have peace of mind?
In Enjoying Peace and Balance you will identify areas of your life that are out of balance and you’ll find the tools and resources you need to bring everything back into balance. Peace grows out of knowing who we really are at the core, and balance gives us the ability to handle anything life sends our way. You’ll learn to work hard and play joyfully, to go at full speed when you need to and relax totally when you want to. You’ll begin with written goals, affirmations, plans, and a support team that enlists the help of others.
Peace and Balance
you will be guided
through the practical
steps that lead to
creating a wonderful
balance in your life,
even in the midst of
circumstances. You will
learn your true identity
and begin to embrace
your own power as you
create a beautiful,
Enjoying Peace and
Balance will encourage you to
begin your journey
toward enjoying a life
filled with peace and
balance by envisioning
your best life and
aligning your thoughts
with bringing that
vision to life, creating
a reality where you feel
relaxed and free.
Find the peace that only
comes with true balance
in your life! Begin this
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In today’s world of
tensions, and economic
peace and maintaining
balance can seem
impossible. Added to
challenges coming from
the outside world are
those coming from our
personal lives. When a
spouse or child gets
seriously ill the usual
routines are tossed
aside. When a job is
lost you will feel lost
because the driving
force that got you up in
the morning, out the
door, and provided a
basic structure to your
day is no longer there.
When a relationship
breaks up, a job
assignment changes, a
new manager comes on the
scene, or worse – a
strikes, life can spin
out of balance and into
Learning to enjoy peace and balance means discovering and accepting the fact that peace comes from within. Your inner peace is not dependent on outer peace. If it was, you would be at the mercy of a crazy world and would spend all your time trying to control that world so you could have a little peace of mind. Many people do this, and wear themselves out trying to get the world and those around them to comply. However, this kind of control is misplaced.
The kind of control that is needed is self control. Inner peace depends on your ability to let go of the world while practicing the discipline of personal responsibility for your attitudes, responses, and behaviors. The question to ask yourself is, “Are you part of the problem, or part of the solution?”
If you are in the habit of blaming others, denying responsibility, manipulating people or events, magnifying small irritations so you’ll have something to talk about, or constantly creating drama because it brings you attention, you will never have peace and balance. If you want peace of mind and a sense of balance in your life, you have to make a commitment to truth, love, cooperation, service, acceptance of what is, and a willingness to embrace your own power to create a beautiful, stress-free environment.
A common misconception is that the way to have peace is to ignore your feelings. Another – and opposite – misconception is that some reactions and behaviors are “normal,” or even expected in certain cases. For example, when insulted, some people get angry, others become aggressive, some feel crushed and their self esteem takes a dive, while still others slink away to pout or and spend days imagining things they could do to get even. Most of us inherit attitudes, responses, and reactions to certain feelings from our parents. We observed them and copied what they did – or what we thought they were doing.
The problem with both of these misconceptions is that too many people flop from one pole to the other as if these were the only two possibilities. To ignore feelings is an invitation to have them go underground and sabotage your relationships in very destructive ways. The feeling goes unfelt, unacknowledged, and unexpressed, then surfaces later at a totally inappropriate moment. When you hear a friend or lover irritably complaining, “You never do (or say)…” OR, “You always think (or say, or act as if)…” then you can be fairly certain they have been ignoring feelings and allowing them to go underground.
You are not limited to one pole or the other – ignoring feelings, or reacting negatively to what has just transpired. What about all the other possible responses that would allow you to say, “Wow, that was quite an insult! Is that what you really wanted to say?” and give the person a chance to restate their words, perhaps more positively. If you are in a particularly detached state of mind you might respond with an unspoken observation like, “Hmmm, that was truly an insult and I think this conversation will be terminated until she’s in a better place. Then we’ll talk some more,” and then leave as quickly as possible. There is always the simple truth that would say, “Ouch, that insult hurt! I’m so sorry you felt the need to say that.” And if you were feeling brave and willing to listen deeper, you might add, “What else are you feeling that I should know about?” then breathe deeply and slowly as you listen bravely to someone else’s truth without taking it personally.
Fortunately, we can and do design our own lives whether consciously or unconsciously. Things often go a bit smoother when we do it consciously, and some people have a natural gift for maintaining a peaceful atmosphere. If you would like to be one of them, consider the Ultimate Destiny self study course, Enjoying Peace and Balance. You will find it really is possible to nurture the spirit of peace and keep your life in balance.
Have you ever ridden in a car with a flat tire? How was the ride? A little bumpy, perhaps?
cars such that the
weight of the vehicle is
evenly dispersed between
four, properly inflated
tires. When this
happens, a smooth,
comfortable ride is the
Shows the relationship of peace and balance
Discusses what is the core of our true identity
Explains the dynamic of change in relationships.
even if you
are the only
Provides a step-by-step approach to gaining balance in your life
Get inspired that peace is possible, even in the midst of challenging circumstances.
Enjoying Peace and Balance is a Treasure Chest packed with over 100 pages of original content, fun and insightful self discovery assessments, Master Goals Setting Forms, Implementation Action Planning Exercises and several free bonuses.
The Program includes 12 main sections designed to help you discover your dreams and realize your ultimate success: including How To:
1. Know Yourself! through insightful Self Assessment Discovery Exercises
2. Envision Your Ideal Future as You Harness the Creative Powers of Your Imagination
3. Create A Feeling of Gratitude for the Realization of the Vision of Your Ultimate Potential
4. Set and Achieve S.M.A.R.T. Goals (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Time-Dated)
5. Develop and Implement Action Plans
6. Use Visualization with Vision Boards and Treasure Maps
7. Develop and Use Affirmation Statements
8. Nurture Your Heart's Desires
9. Identify and Work with Coaches, Mentors and Cheerleaders
10. Create Your Own Mastermind Support Team
11. Apply the Law of Attraction by Flowing Positive Energy to Your Vision
12. Enjoy Maximum Benefits from Lifelong Learning of Essential Successful Living Skills
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